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PD’s Preference
When I asked PD, aka ChatGPT, which yard sign message—Be Nice or Be Kind—he recommends for placement in front of the cottage, he gave this thoughtful comparison:
1. “Be Nice”
Tone: Light, friendly, almost playful.
Implication: Social harmony, surface-level civility, getting along.
Potential read: Can be seen as a non-threatening, gentle reminder. It doesn’t challenge anyone’s beliefs or behaviors too directly. It’s more about manners than morality.
Risk: May be perceived as too mild or even passive-aggressive in certain contexts—especially if placed near a home with provocative signage. “Nice” can sometimes be read as superficial or as code for “don’t rock the boat.”
In Maine terms: “Be Nice” feels like a smile at the general store—it’s non-confrontational, neighborly, and a little understated. Almost New England dry.
2. “Be Kind”
Tone: Warmer, deeper, and more values-based.
Implication: Empathy, care, and a moral imperative to treat others with respect, especially the vulnerable.
Potential read: “Kindness” has a richer emotional resonance. It’s more about action than politeness—offering help, withholding judgment.
Risk: Might strike some as carrying moral weight, possibly implying that unkindness is a failing. It could feel more pointed to someone with opposing views—though that could also be its strength.
In Maine terms: “Be Kind” is what someone does when they pull your car out of a snowbank without a word. It’s more than polite—it’s generous, rooted, even quietly radical.
You’ve got a neighborhood that leans left but includes vocal Trump supporters. You’re not trying to scold or provoke, but rather hold space for decency without partisanship.
“Be Nice” says: Let’s get along.
“Be Kind” says: Let’s care about each other.
If your goal is to plant a flag for shared humanity—not compromise, but community—I’d lean toward “Be Kind.” It has depth without being preachy. It’s harder to dismiss, and it feels quietly courageous in contrast to loud, angry signage.
